When ensuring the personality development of a child or even yourself β focus on the positive rather than the negative. Allow your conscious being to filter in only the positive aspects of being alive as it passes through to the subconscious. You will also want to ensure that the same applies for not only things relevant to being alive β but for things that apply to how you treat others, treat yourself and any habits that you may or may not have. The only time that you should allow negativity to enter the subconscious is when it relates to something that may hurt or do you long term harm.
Personality development is all about ensuring you do the right thing to your mental wellbeing order to secrete feelings of happiness. This will infect others around you and will make you a more likeable person. Try and ensure that you are able to treat others in a manner that is conducive to cementing a long term friendship with the person. That way your life will be enriched with the kindness and love of others. Personality development starts with you. Whether it is in regards to your children, students and friends (or family). Donβt let past experiences bring you down.
Take heed for the future by creating a positive buffer around yourself that removes you from the problems of others. Try and offer support in when others need it and remain tethered to reality in order to bring others down to earth in their time of need. If you are positive, then others around you will read this optimism as a sign that the world is not going to end. This will infect them with optimism so that you can remain infused with a positive ambience at all times. Personality development as it applies to your own mental wellbeing does really come down to the individual.